SOUTHERN INDIANA ACTS OF KINDNESS - The Extra Milers ® Column - Carol Baker Dawson, Columnist
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RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS WEEK:  February 9 - 15, 2009
 
THIS IS WHAT OUR EXTRA MILERS HAVE DONE...WHAT WILL YOU DO? 
 
Starting January 2009 - we began this web site to record the acts of kindness of Southern Indiana citizens - in the hopes that others will gain ideas on how they can duplicate these good deeds. 
 
SOUTHERN INDIANA SUBMISSIONS:
 
We have thousands of Southern Indiana Extra Milers who are performing acts of kindness every day. Many have been featured in the monthly column, The Extra Milers (featured in the New Albany Tribune and The Evening News, Jeffersonville).  Here are some recent submissions to celebrate Random Acts of Kindness Week.  To submit an act of kindness, see email link listed below. 
 
1. January 2009: Mr. John Blunk, Clarksville, Indiana - Mr. Blunk writes about the loss of his beloved pet - his dog, Nicki. As any good pet owner knows, one of the most difficult things we can do is make the life or death decision when our pet is in pain beyond healing. Mr. Blunk recently had to deal with this pain as he lost his companion and best friend of 12 years, Nicki. Mr. Blunk found comfort in the excruciatingly painful process through the kindness of Nicki's veterinarian, Dr. H.R. Gough, D.V.M. and staff. They were respectful of Mr. Blunk's feelings and emotions, making the process easier to endure. He then discovered the pet services offered through Scott's Funeral Home. There too he was treated with respect and compassion, as he said goodbye to his devoted friend. To the staff of Dr. Gough and Scott's Funeral Home - thank you for going that Extra Mile.
 
2. For the past seven years, Charlestown High School 9th grade teacher, Mary Ann Zierer, has been teaching her students that random acts of kindness is appreciated. Mary Ann explains: “I hand out slips of paper when I witness students in my classes performing random acts of kindness, (hold the door, lend someone a pencil, etc.). The students put their names on the papers and they are then placed in a class box in my room. On the last two Fridays of a grading period I give out $1.25 (the price of a soft drink) to the student whose name I select by drawing out of that class’s random act of kindness box. On the last school day, I give our larger reward and incentives. Typically, every student gets something.” Mary Ann’s students are learning that beyond the good feeling her students have when performing acts of kindness – they can benefit with recognition and praise. Thanks to our Extra Miler Mary Ann Zierer and her 9th grade students!
 
3. Amy Short, a third grade teacher from Jonathan Jennings Elementary School (JJ) located in Charlestown, Indiana, wrote about Jonathon Jennings'school’s cafeteria manager, Cindy Shoultz, who is an Extra Miler. Amy explains, “Cindy is very kind to our students. She has created a ‘Teria’ Ticket program, where students earn special little tickets for answering questions about their level skills, Larry Bell’s 12 power words, respectful and kind behavior, and/or turning in their lunch money that is over due. My students are so excited to tell me about earning a ticket!! They then cash these tickets once a month for a variety of prizes!! She has a huge cart full of prizes she has bought or made with her daughter. She is very special to our school!!! She spent her summer developing this concept and getting her cart ready. The old saying “It takes a village…” is really true at JJ.”
Amy further notes, “We also have a kindness club at JJ. I am the sponsor and many students do kind things each month when we meet. They are sponsoring a kindness chain project school wide right now.” Thanks to Cindy in Charlestown, Amy Short, and the awesome students of JJ Elementary, who are Extra Milers for Southern Indiana.
 
4. Etta Devine, called to tell us about her wonderful neighbors, Jean and Bill Wheeler.  Etta is 84 years old, recovering from 4 strokes, and has little mobility.  She explains, "Bill and Jean are two of the most wonderful people in the world...they are good to everyone they know, not just me."  Etta went on to explain that they have taken her to the hospit and stayed  with her as she recovered, performed chores for her around the house, and even bring her dinner each evening.  They have been neighbors for over 20 years and Etta doesn't know what she would do without them, "Both Bill and Jean have their own physical issues to deal with, but that doesn't stop them from doing for everyone else."  Bill and Jean see things that need to be done (like bringing in Etta's garbage cans after pickup), and they just step up and do it.  She said they are also very active in their church in New Albany. Etta, thank you for introducing us to Jean and Bill Wheeler, Southern Indiana Extra Milers. 
 
5.  Kelly Bayens reported an act of kindness that was bestowed upon her family in January 2009 at the Tumbleweed on Charlestown Road in New Albany.
 
My husband and I took our 2 daughters (5yrs & 2yrs) out to eat on a Friday night. It was around 8:00 and of course they were pretty busy. We only waited about 15-20 minutes for our table; however once we were seated it took about 10 minutes for our server to come take our drink orders and about the same to take our food order. We were there for around an hour and a half. The entire time our daughters were very well behaved, sat in their chairs and colored.  We never heard much from them ( anyone who have kids in this age group can say that is pretty good).  Anyway, there was a man and woman sitting in the booth next to our table (I didn't get their names) who made it a point to come over to our table when they were leaving to tell our girls what a wonderful job they did at behaving, considering the amount of time we had been there. As the woman proceeded to tell them this she gave each of them $10 and told them to go buy them a little gift! I was completely shocked, first of all for someone to actually come over and tell them this and then to give them money.  You can imagine how proud I was of them, but even more amazed at how generous it was of a complete stranger to come over and say something.  
It didn't stop there! A few moments later the manager walked up to check on us to see if we needed anything and my husband told her no thanks we would just like to get our bill. The manager then told us that there was a surprise for the night and that the wonderful couple that not only gave our girls a little gift, had also taken care of our dinner bill!! I just couldn't believe it...I think about those wonderful people quite often and pray that God would bless them as they did us... no one made them pay for our dinner, they just did it out of the kindness of their hearts. I only wish I could have told them thank you, it is something that I will remember for a long time.
To the couple who bestowed this Random Act of Kindness, thank you for being Southern Indiana Extra Milers - you will never know the impact you made on this family.  
 
6. Sandy Lewis, Greater Clark County School System, contacted us to tell of a charitable effort the school administrators and staff were taking to raise money for a variety of charities/non-profits.   Sandy's email: 
 
Staff members working in Greater Clark’s Administration Building were given permission in February 2003 to “dress casual” on Fridays.  The caveat to the benefit is that those participating in “dress casual” Friday pay $1.00 each week and receive a sticker to wear that day stating “Dressing Casual for Charity.” 
 
Since February 2003,over $8,762.40 has been contributed by participating staff members.   Initially all of the money collected for the pleasure of “dressing casual” was donated to the Relay for Life program.  However recognizing that some staff members may have a favorite charity that he/she supports, the activity was modified as follows:   
 
All persons who participate in the “dress casual” Friday names are put in a drawing. Each week a different employee’s name is drawn and that person gets to decide what charity is the beneficiary of the funds collected that week. 
 
Charities that have benefited from these contributions are:  Relay for Live, American Heart Association, Spinal Muscular Atrophy (SMA), the Diabetes Foundation, American Red Cross, and many more. 
 
Margie Fetter, Accounts Payable Manger, volunteers her time to receive the money and distribute it to the various charities….but the participation of the staff members should be recognized. 
 
Sandy hopes other organizations will PASS IT ON by emulating this effort in their workplace. Greater Clark County School System staff, we thank you for being Southern Indiana Extra Milers. 
 
7. Alice and Jerry Miles notified us about their wonderful neighbors, Cheryl and Bob Klueppelberg and their son, Eric.  Their good deeds as neighbors go back to the storm Ike.  After the storm, Alice and Jerry had limbs and leaves throughout their 1/2 acre property.  They came home one afternoon and every leaf and every branch had been picked up.  After making some calls to find out who performed this good deed, they discovered it was Cheryl and Eric Klueppelberg (Eric was 8 years old at the time). 
 
The kindness didn't stop there.  Last week, when the ice and snow storm hit, Alice and Jerry decided to stay indoors to avoid risk of injury on the ice.  The Klueppelberg's cleaned off a walkway to their mailbox and brought them their newspaper.  Alice and Jerry were appreciative of this act; however, there was more to come.  Jerry looked outside the next day and their neighbors were shoveling off their entire (slanted) driveway.  Alice said, "When we initially moved into this subdivision 5 years ago, we were concerned about living in a subdivision without more space around us, as we had all of our lives."  She added, "It didn't take us long to realize the importance of having neighbors close by to help when needed."  Alice and Jerry, thank you for letting us know about your caring neighbors, Cheryl, Bob and Eric Klueppelberg, who are definitely Southern Indiana Extra Milers. 
 
8.  Jeffersonville, Indiana –  To observe Random Acts of Kindness Week, the Greater Clark Board of School Trustees, Travis Haire (Interim-Superintendent), and all central office administrative staff will provide all Greater Clark students, faculty, and staff members with a special treat in appreciation for their hard work.  Travis Haire will send a letter of appreciation to all faculty and staff (teachers, custodians, para-educations, laborers, clerical personnel, principals, counselors, etc.) the day before the special treat is distributed.  Information will also be posted in all buildings promoting “Random Acts of Kindness”. Travis Haire and other central office administrative will be out at the schools helping with distribution of the special treat.  The special treat is a package of animal crackers.  This food item meets state requirements as a healthy food choice and is low in sugar for those with restricted diets or diabetes to enjoy. 
We are sure the children (and adults) will certainly enjoy the kind words and yummy treat!  Thanks for kicking of the week and setting the tone for the schools.  Thanks Mr. Haire, School Board members, and the central administrative staff, for being Extra Milers
 
9. RIVERSIDE'S CHAIN OF KINDNESSRiverside Elementary, Jeffersonville, Indiana Student Council is sponsoring Random Acts of Kindness Week.  During this week students are encouraged to do unplanned, nice things for other students and adults. Our goal is to make everyone aware of how easy it is to be kind to others every day. Students will record their acts of kindness on colorful paper strips. These paper strips will be compiled into a class chain that will be stapled together with all other grade level chains and hung in the main hallway of the school. In past years, the children have completed enough kindnesses for others that the chain has filled the hallway outside the office.  The visual reminder of the chain helps students see how their individual acts of kindness, when put together with others, can help make our school a better place as well as giving each student a chance to feel good about helping.
Thank you to our young Southern Indiana Extra Milers (and their teachers) at Riverside Elementary School in Jeffersonville, for showing how acts of kindness of all sizes can combine to make a big difference in our world. 
 
10. The Evening News received a call from Pat Treadway of Jeffersonville.  She wanted to give kudos to one of our county officers, Nick Mobley.  "My car died as I was picking up my granddaughter from Jeff High School recently. Cars began beeping as traffic was backing up behind me, which upset me and my granddaughter, but I was unable to get my car going (the alternator had stopped working). Then, a County Officer, Cpl. Nick Mobley, showed up and was very nice. He motioned for help from some men and pushed the car for me to the side of the road. I was so nervous, I couldn't even steer, but he even leaned in the window and steered the car. I just want to recognize him for his kindness to us."
Thank you, Cpl. Mobley, for being a Southern Indiana Extra Miler. 
 
11. John and Delores Malone, New Albany, Indiana sent an email to recognize a great neighbor, Mr. Terry Rutledge.  They wrote, “We live in the Woodland Hills subdivision of New Albany and received a tremendous amount of snow and ice during the January storm. The driveway, from our home to the street, is long and has quite an incline. Although my husband had shoveled some snow and ice from the driveway, much more needed to be done.  One evening, in an effort to go out for food, we had great difficulty because the car kept sliding and the wheels kept spinning.  When we returned home, we were pleasantly surprised and grateful that our neighbor, Terry Rutledge, had been kind enough to come over and remove more of the snow and ice from our driveway. This made it so much easier for us to get in and out. As older citizens, we appreciated this help.”   
Terry Rutledge, thank you for being a Southern Indiana Extra Miler.  Your kindness is appreciated. 
 
12. Jason Thornbury nominated several individuals and the St. Paul’s Espiscopal Church Parish in Jeffersonville to be recognized by the Extra Milers.  Jeffersonville police officers, Cpl. Dan Lawhorn and Patrolman Keith Broady, were seriously injured during duty in February 2009.  Many in the Southern Indiana community have stepped up to help the officers and their families.  We will keep an ongoing list on this site to recognize these Extra Milers.  
 
* The St. Paul Episcopal Church Parish in Jeffersonville, with John Grimm (Sr. Church Warden) at the helm, held a benefit fish fry held on February 27.  In their 43 year fish fry history, this was the most successful, serving approximately 213 sit-down and 220 carryout meals per hour, for a total of 2,165 dinners over a five hour period.  The coordinators recognize the essential involvement of the Jeffersonville Fraternal Order of Police Lodge 100, the F.O.P. Auxiliary, police officers, and their families.  Special thanks also is extended to Chef Adam Koch, Chef Joe Burges and Masterson's Restaurant for the loan of the portable commercial kitchen.  John Grimm stated, “We truly live in an amazing community and one of which we should all be extremely proud.”   To John Grimm, and all involved in the Fund Raiser, thank you for being Southern Indiana Extra Milers!  
 
* Thanks to the Evening News and New Albany Tribune for publicizing events to benefit our injured Police Officers.  Keep it up! 
 
* Thanks to Andrew Shirey, who was honored by the Mayor of Jeffersonville, Tom Galligan, for raising $516 via his Pennies for Police campaign, to benefit our injured police officers.  This isn't the first time this active Georgetown Elementary fourth-grader has stepped up to help police officers - he raised money in 2007 for Floyd County Officers Joel White and the family of Frank Denzinger (who were ambushed when responding to a call (the call lead to Denzinger's death and White's suffering critical injuries).  Andrew, we appreciate your accomplishments and compassion - you are indeed an Extra Miler. 
 
13.  Jason Thornbury contacted me to to nominate the Floyd County Sheriff's Dept., FOP Lodge 171 and Cops against Cancer as Extra Milers.  These individuals are working hard to raise money to assist the wife of a fellow officer. 
 
Jason wrote, "Sara Kerberg is a 29 year old mother who lives in Floyd County, Indiana with her husband Jason and their two daughters (Meagan is 7 and Kayla is 4). Sara Kerberg has been diagnosed and started treatment for inflammatory breast cancer. Jason is a police officer with the Floyd County Sheriff's Department.  Thank you for visiting this site (provided below) and continue to keep Sara in your thoughts and prayers.  Please visit Sara's page at Caring Bridge to send her a message and check on her status: http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/sarakerberg
 
There were two very successful benefits to benefit Sara Kerberg:  The Great Scavenger Hunt and the Totally Awesome 80s Dance.  Both were very successful.  Thank you Floyd County Sheriff's Dept. FOP Lodge 171 and the Cops Against Cancer for being Southern Indiana Extra Milers! 
 
14. Jeffersonville Police Chief Tim Deeringer publicly thanks everyone who gave blood through the American Red Cross (to help Police Officer Keith Broady and Cpl. Dan Lawhorn).  He also thanked the Jeffersonville Police Officers, the doctors and staff of the University of Louisville Hospital, the assisting law enforcement agencies from Louisville and Southern Indiana (including the FBI and Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms), the Jeffersonville Fire Department, Yellow Ambulance medical technicians, those who have participated in fund raisers. Chief Deeringer said he couldn't thank the community enough for their support. 
 
15. Thanks from Melony to the kind stranger at Waffle & Steak in New Albany. 
"I did not realize a project such as this existed; WOW ! I'd really appreciate the opportunity to publicly THANK (perhaps, via the Tribune) a wonderful man, who sat at the same counter area as myself on Saturday a.m.at Waffle & Steak in New Albany; I noticed he was reading the paper after which he paid for both our tabs at the register and quietly left the restaurant before the waitress even told me. I could not have been more Appreciative considering I recently lost my job,and to be blunt I really only had quarters mostly to pay for my meal,a distressing fact considering I wanted to leave the waitress a tip AND had planned on attending an AA meeting at the Token Club;and honestly it bums me out if I'm unable to put .50cents - a dollar in the basket; not because they ask for it but because what I've gain from meetings doesnt even compare to such a meager contribution...which is why i think such a random act of kindness meant so much to me; it really reaffirmed my FAITH. Apparently the gentleman is a regular customer at the restaurant,the servers werent sure of his name only that he is a retired police officer ......Thank you Sir for making my week!"  Melony
Southern Indiana does indeed have many kind hearts and Extra Milers - Thanks for giving Melony faith in mankind. You may never know what your gift meant to her. 
 
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The Group photograph:  The VFW/American Legion Color/Honor Guard of Charlestown are:  L to R:  Carroll Adams, Bill Cheesman, Jim Barett, Garnett Lowe, George Roberts, Chuck Grose, Ted Holder (front:  Capt. Tom Cook) - not pictured:  Ward Tackett, Everitt Long, Charles Ryker, Tom Bays, and Ed Giltner.
 
Extra Miler Pinning:  Bill Cheesman pins the Extra Miler pin on Capt. Tom Cook's lapel, as Ward Tackett watches in the background. 
 
 
 
 
 
The Extra Miler - A Bond Between Veterans- Column #62
November 28 and December 5, 2009
By Carol Dawson
They answer the call…when needed by a grieving widow or parent.  They answer the call…even when snow, ice, or rain makes it difficult to walk, much less to march while carrying flags and rifles.  They answer the call…even when their own bodies ache from pains they choose to ignore.  They answer the call…to honor the veterans of the United States of America. 
Our Extra Milers this month are the members of the Veterans of Foreign War (VFW)/American Legion Color Guard/Honor Guard of Charlestown.  They are a group of men who continue to answer the call to duty today, just as they did years ago when they answered our nation’s call to service. 
I met these Extra Milers during a Color/Honor Guard service held prior to a windy 5K race in Jeffersonville.  They arrived on a blue military looking bus. They arrived early; being late is not an option for what they do.  They marched in their military uniforms, holding with pride the American flag, along with the VFW and American Legion flags. 
As they began the ceremony, the National Anthem played in the background.  The flags whipped to and fro in the wind – demanding attention. After the Anthem, the bugler, Carroll Adams, beautifully performed "Taps." As the music began, the wind momentarily stopped as if receding in respect to our veterans.  Many of the runners were moved to tears and I realized how privileged I was to be standing in this spot – in this state – in this country – and near these men. 
 After the ceremony, Capt. Tom Cook and his men came by my office to be interviewed.  There was a natural camaraderie within the group, as they easily laughed and joked with one another.  As a military brat, I felt respect and an immediate kinship.   
These men serve as Color/Honor Guard over veteran funerals and special veteran ceremonies.  This means being called out approximately 50 or more times a year, which includes presenting the flag at more than 30 veteran funerals.  
Two of the Color Guard members are 89 years old, Bill Cheesman and Garnett Lowe.  Lowe has been a Color Guard member for 61 years.  It has become difficult for some of the men to walk or stand for long periods, but they will continue on until they are unable to walk.  I asked the men about their motivation.  Capt. Cook clearly spoke for the entire group when he responded, “We do it out of honor and respect for our great country and for the veterans who serve and have honorably served in our military.”
They do it for their heroes...especially for the soldiers who served and didn’t come home.  They also do it for the families who stand humbly by the graveside of their fallen veteran sons, daughters, husbands, and wives. 
The constant theme throughout our conversation was honor, dignity, and respect.  They are all proud of this country and despite the troubles we are having, these men believe the United Sates is the greatest country in the world.  So great, several said they would serve in the military again today if they were called to duty. 
Fiercely patriotic, they also know the importance of friendship and enjoying one another’s company to ensure they stay together – especially when performing such daunting and emotional tasks as military funerals.  When asked about the funniest thing that occurred during a ceremony, the men laughed in tandem.  Turns out, there are many…but one stood out.  It was during a military funeral.  Ward Tacket had not served previously as the Firer; however, he was the only person available and volunteered to shoot one of the rifles. 
After the gun salute, Capt. Cook was reaching across the grave for the flag when Ward accidentally hit the trigger instead of the safety and the rifle went off.  Capt. Cook was so startled by the unexpected loud noise that he nearly fell into the grave. The widow went from sobbing to hardly able to contain her laughter.  They also laughed at the time Chuck Grose’s cell phone started ringing during a ceremony and instead of turning it off, he just grabbed it out of his pocket and threw it as far as he could, breaking it to pieces.
After the laughter subsided, I asked what they do when they are not working.  Ted Holder spoke up, “We occasionally talk about women.”  I smiled and said, “Respectfully, I presume.”  “Of course,” and with a sly grin he added, “You know, we may be old, but we are not dead.”  These men are irrefutably youthful, with more passion for life than many people half their age.   
Typical of Extra Milers, the men wanted to thank others for allowing them to do what they can for our veterans.  They thanked the American Legion, the VFW, the auxiliary women who make sure they have a warm meal waiting when they come back from Color Guard duty, the sons of the American Legion and the men’s auxiliary.  
The Charlestown Color/Honor Guard members are undeniably Extra Milers for Southern Indiana.  They are friends, bound together by common bonds.  They believe wholeheartedly in this country and in the military men and women who currently are serving.  During our interview, it occurred to me that they serve as our country’s backbone - our strongest link to freedom…and all they have ever asked in return is to know what they do is appreciated. 
These men have undeniably answered the call…because their job is critical.  As long as their bodies will allow them to get on that blue bus, they will stand proud with the flag and honor the veterans of this country. Thank you…thank you...thank you
 
Extra Miler Tip of the Month:  Veterans, the Color/Honor Guards everywhere need your support.  They need younger veterans to help continue the work of honoring our country and our veterans.  Please consider stepping up if you can.  For the rest of us…never pass a veteran or military personnel without thanking him/her.  A universal sign of thank you is touching the tips of your fingers to your chin and then holding your palms open toward the veteran you wish to thank.  You can do this from across a room, the airport, or a parking lot.  Two simple words that mean so much, “Thank you.”   
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